I took this photo in early May of 2009, when he would have been maybe ten months old, and an agile jumper. I published it here under the title "Attila, lord of all he surveys." He was one of two Tuxedo kittens Liz, our daughter, rescued from under a friend's house in Bed Stuy in the late summer of 2008. She named him Attila "ironically" because he was the runt of the litter. She let her mother name his sister. Martha named her Hepzibah, for a character she likes in Hawthorne's The House of the Seven Gables.
Attila's un-Hunnish nature led us to call him "Tilly." Hepzibah inevitably was shortened to Hepzi. As they grew he remained long, lean, and acrobatic. She put on weight, and let him know who was boss. When I put down food for both of them she usually came first and would eat from her bowl until he arrived and started eating from his dish. She would then turn and nudge his head away from the bowl, then start eating his food. He quickly learned that he could then circle behind her, eat from her bowl, and that, having asserted her dominance, she was happy to let him.
Despite this, they could show sibling affection, with long minutes of grooming each other. Hepzi was very affectionate with Martha, Liz, and me but would hide when visitors arrived. Tilly, though, had no fear of strangers, and was especially fond of our women friends. One of them declared him "my BFF." The cats were both our bed companions, with Tilly usually lying on Martha's side and Hepzi on mine. When I would make my usual two nightly sorties from bed to bathroom I would often come back to find Tilly lying curled at the base of my pillow. I like to think he did it to keep it warm for me.
About a month ago we noticed Tilly losing his usual vim. He was approaching eighteen. He no longer jumped onto the bed. He began meowing plaintively at night. Then he started having accidents on the bathroom floor because he was having trouble climbing properly onto the litter box. A week ago Martha took him to the vet, who said she thought he was not in bad shape apart from an infected paw, for which she prescribed an antibotic. He came home, and Martha dutifully administered the oral antibiotic, with decidedly little cooperation. Things went steadily downhill. He ate and drank little; the accidents continued, and his howling became more frequent and more plaintive. He began walking aimlessly in circles. Yesterday Martha took him back to the vet, who concluded that he was likely having kidney failure. Hence, goodbye.
Tilly, like all cats you had your quirks, but you brought us almost eighteen years of love and fun. We miss you.



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